STORY OF -TWO POTS
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in  it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion  of water. At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the  cracked pot arrived only half full. For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water. 
Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments. But the  poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that  it could only do half of what it had been made to do. After 2 years of  what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day  by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side  causes water to leak out all the way back to your house." 
The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your  side of the path, but not on the other pot's side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of  the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them." "For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the  table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this  beauty to grace the house." 
Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we  each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding. You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the  good in them.